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Embracing Change Is The Best Thing In Your Life

Jessil Serna — Mon, 18 Feb 2019 20:32:02 +0000

There is a popular saying about change that says “change is constant”. Be it positively or negatively, we must at one point in our lives experience change. Many people become so attached to whatever they are doing, even when they don’t meet their expectations from them. They key thing is not to run from change, but to embrace it. Here are some reasons why you should make the most out of whatever change it is that you are experiencing. Change Is An Opportunity, a chance to start all over The mistake most people make is to focus on the negativity of change. Yes, that is the human nature for you. When we experience change and lurk on the negativities, we tend to forget how much positivity we can harness from it. We face the opportunity to get something right by building it up more carefully and stronger. A vivid example is on the internet, when the internet came into place, a lot of businesses found it hard to accept the change, others took that chance, built websites from scratch and look where they are now today. So while everyone is busy looking for who to complain to and how best to make their murmurs heard, you should be busy with looking for how to make the most out of what happened. A chance to do better Since you have accepted the to make change an opportunity to start afresh, do you also know that this time you will get to do better and come out bigger. With the past experiences of before, you can avoid the mistakes that you made before now. Hence, you come out with better results. It is also profitable if you are one of those that pioneered something good from circumstances, other people will follow your steps and give their credits to you. A chance for things to fall into place You never can tell the good things that happen when change occurs. The truth is, when you see only the negative aspects of change, you wont be ready to embrace the good things that come with it because surely, there are good things that come with change. If things don’t turn around, we will continue to be in our comfort zone and there will be barely a chance for improvement. We in fact become stronger and better when we overcome changes that come away. Remember change is the only constant thing Just as said earlier, change is the only constant thing. The more we progress in life, the more we meet new things, new situation, criteria’s to be met, challenges. What makes us successful people is our ability to turn these into stepping stones for our endeavours. If you keep doing things the same way, the results are always the same While on the road to success, we often get carried away that we do not want to change the process by which we do things. Change on the other hand allows us to experience a whole different process of doing things and as well experience the new results that come with them. Talking about personal development, the bulk of the process of self-development is our ability to learn new things each time things change. We discover new inspirations, insights and most times, an open door for success.

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How to Create Connections to reach your GOALS

Jessil Serna — Sun, 22 Jul 2018 15:22:55 +0000

They often say it’s not WHAT you know, it’s WHO you knows you. Creating long lasting and meaningful connections to get closer to reach your goals is an amazing thing to have in life. There are different ways to create connections and for different reasons. Depending on what your goals are and why you want to create these connections, you could do things differently. The ways I am going to share with you today are ways I find are the ones that worked for me over the years and have created meaningful relationships that I can consider the most worthwhile and productive in my life. Cold Calling Going to events Cold Calling Since I started my pursuit in building an empire, two of my most influential connections came from this method. I know it could be scary to pick up the phone and just call a random stranger out of the blue but, hey, what’s the worst thing I got from calling people? They hang up on me or say NO they don’t want to meet me. Which is nothing really. Going to Events Wherever you may be on this planet, there will always be events where people gather in events Before you call someone, you have to prepare 3 main things: 1. Your target 2. How you could help them (what’s in it for them) 3. A natural sounding script or an overview of what you want to talk about Your target I forgot who said, “If you don’t know where you are going, any road will take you there.” Similarly, If you don’t know what kind of people you want to meet, any type of connections (even the wrong ones) will seem to be a good progress. Being genuinely interested in people’s lives and having their best interest at heart is always the goal; but this time, we are looking for something more than that. How you could help them (What’s in it for them?) Someone famous once said: “Everyone does everything out of selfishness.” It doesn’t matter how selfless the action could be, at some level it made the person feel good. Imagine you met two new people today, everything about them are equal except what they bring to your life. One brings you nothing and offers you nothing, both in personal and business life but asks for your help all the time. The other offers you help and the potential to meet other new people. Who would you rather be continually be in touch with? Be that kind of person. It’s always a give and take relationship, give a lot and don’t expect anything in return but don’t hesitate to ask. A natural sounding script or an overview of what you want to talk about If you are new to this and are not sure how to start, it doesn’t hurt to have a planned script or outline as to what to say when you’re actually doing things. It also boils down to flirting, do it too mild and they might get bored; do it too aggressive and they might get scared; do it just right and you have a chance. CONCLUSION Do not be an asshole. Be genuinely and truly good in all your intentions when you meet people. People will feel if you have some kind of agenda behind your words and actions. DO NOT WORRY. The right people in your life will come, but first you have to look for them. If you find this post helpful to yourself or anyone you know, HIT THE SHARE BUTTON 🙂

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TWO WAYS TO FIND FOCUS…again

Jessil Serna — Sun, 22 Jul 2018 15:18:11 +0000

FINDING FOCUS It’s so easy to be distracted. With all the distractions the world has to offer today, it is so easy to be sidetracked from your goals. Here are two quick fixes I use to refocus myself: DROP EVERYTHING BE ALONE DROP EVERYTHING Just stop. Drop everything and go somewhere. Relax, clear your mind, and do something you love and enjoy. When you feel stressed and find yourself getting distracted more and more, I always find it best to drop everything and just push my reset button. I go back to square one and just forget everything. This resets myself to a place where I am happy and relieved. Want to know the best part? I get to ask myself if I am happy with what I’m doing to achieve my goals. What am I doing? Am I happy? Is it going to be worth it? What’s next? What’s going to happen if I continue doing what I’m doing? What if I stop? These are the questions I ask myself on a regular basis and they have guided me a lot. BE ALONE This might not be for everyone. Some people prefer to be with others when they want to recharge. I do that too. I go out with friends and just have fun. But the goal is to find focus again. That’s why I would always find time to be alone. To be able to think. I think of the different perspectives of what is happening. Where am I now? Where do I want to be? What do I need to do to get there? REFOCUS I regularly do these two things in my life and have been able to grow constantly because of it. You have to remember that the universe will always be there to guide you. These questions have helped me realize a lot of things and in effect I have been able to become more aware of the things I do. Focus on yourself. Instead of gossiping about others, gossip to yourself about yourself. In order to grow, you must need to look into yourself and fill the gaps. Keep smiling 🙂 If you find this post helpful to yourself or anyone you know, HIT THE SHARE BUTTON 🙂

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